A woman I am dating mentioned to me she is a Alpha woman. What does she mean by that? I didn't want to ask her to clarify that term she used. But I guess I know it sounded bad that I would of probably wanted to leave her. My guess is is that she is a bossy or domineering woman. In that case I am outta there if that is what she means she is. Too bad too cause she is very pretty and kinda nice. But aren't they all before they bait and switch?? Thank you in advance.
That would about sum it up. Course if you put on your Alpha Male hat - it would bring her up to Your standards. Then there's the fun part about setting her straight on who's the boss and or knocking her down a knotch or two
My guess is is that she is a bossy or domineering woman.
In the animal kingdom - wolf packs are lead by an alpha male and female.
Originally Posted by Steve R Jones
If there is no compromise, then it is time to disappear.
Sounds like she thinks she is more than she really is....
Knock her down a few notches and be a man...
I would easily knock her down a couple notches. But she is 52 ( looks late 30's to early 40's and pretty ) but she is just older then I am. I'm 47 and she mentioned to me that she fell in love with me. Now get this....she fell in love with me after we dated for 3 months and I left her. I left her because she sounded and acted like a premadonna. I couldn't take it anymore and I walked out. She said that in the 6 months that I was gone ( she came looking for me early this year ) she fell in love with because I wasn't trying to kiss her ****. I wasnt like other men that tell her what she wants to hear. I was unlike any of the men ( and she made sure she told me she had dated lots of men in my absence, but with no sex ). Anyways....I dont think I want to stay with her any longer now that she mentioned that alpha word. It is time to move on again I think. Oh well......that's life being life.
Women..... Give them an inch and they will take a mile and walk all over you every time they get a chance.
Originally Posted by excelscior
Yeah send her packing, you will be much better off in the long run.
Most aren't worth the drama, headaches and the hassles..
Don't believe anything that they say, they are always working some kind of angle and they all have an agenda.
Lockup your wallet and you bank accounts and never let them in, well that is if you want to have any coin left.
age has nothing to do with who is dominant on the relatiomship. I have met many people who are older than I who were way less mature. Women like her will either make a mans' life a total hell or will be lonely for a good long time. Stick to your guns, relatiomships have to be a two way street where there's enough rom to change lanes from time to time.
"The object of war is not to die for your country but to
make the other ******* die for his."
Really it's just another BS buzz word that they came up with to justify their actions of being a real PITA and how important they think they are in their own little scewed up minds.
Originally Posted by excelscior
If one said that to me I would just laugh in her face and walk away.
My wife never mentioned anything, but, if I had only known. And I knew her for 6 years before we got married. Yes, she hid the fact that she would rather be in charge. Too bad for her I have my own mind, and she hates that.
I think we argue about 5 out of the 7 days of the week. She says we need to talk more, but its her that does all the talking. She always needs money, she's an RN by the way.
Best bet, RUN AWAYand don't look back.
Yeah things like that just make me run down the street waving my arms screaming for my life.
Definitely don't want to hear anything that comes out of their pie holes.
Alpha female? hahaha yea you def need to break her down to reality
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