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plucky duck
08-05-2000, 09:28 PM
I have finally found a person whom I wish to spend the rest of my life with. She's 17 BTW and we're both asians. Age can be decieving. She's a lot more mature and knowledgeable than you'd expect from someone her age.

Her life in the past has been disastrous and I really feel for her. What happened in the past has really made her stronger. She's full of energy and will power - the power to learn, to make happy, and to succeed in areas of life where her family had failed. I don't love her out of sympathy, don't get me wrong. I love her because I love her. Its love @ first sight. http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/smile.gif

I'm serious about developing this relationship. I dare not tell her my feelings right now as it is not the time. But only time can tell if we were made for each other. Lots of hurdles making this relationship a real challenge. For one thing, we live in different countries. Second, none of us have the financial stability to support ourselves, nevermind each other. Third, she's already have a person in mind. Fourth, I really dunno when I will get to see her again. And most of all, I dunno what are her feelings towards me as we've only met for a few days. I am trying to maintain contact via email and ICQ. I miss her already http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/frown.gif I hope to learn more about her thru email. It'll be @ least 5/10 years before I see her again, hopefully sooner than I think. Hopefully by then she's still single and I still have a chance.
(Fingers crossed) http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/wink.gif

I've met her down in Denver during my holiday to Vegas. I stayed over @ her uncle's place for a few days and she and her aunt and unc' showed us around. I've been thru Denver quite a few times in past trips but never knew of her existence. Its quite interesting seeing how god has given me this opportunity to meet her @ this point in time. What's it a sign of? I don't really know.

One thing I've really noticed is how much she loves to sing. That's a real plus and I love to sing too. Not just any song though. We're into those oldies 70s/80s/90s classical love songs. You don't get much asian teens that loves such oldie, they'll just say you're outdated and out of style and such. She's really different. She's got the right mix I'm lookin' for. Its kinda wierd how a girl this present day and age doesn't like the hip hop music that flows all around us today. She's really got good taste.

She's very open, honest, playful, and speaks her own mind. I on the other hand am more laid back and tend to be a bit quiet and shy. She's very social and daring. Still in high school and loves to learn just about everything.

Although I've only know her a few days, it felt like I've known her forever. She gives me this very warm feeling. She's a lovely person to be around with.

All people have their ups and downs and good and bad sides. I love her for who she is not for how she looks. Its her heart that counts the most. Sometimes how someone looks physically and what their thoughts are two totally separate things. You know what I'm saying? So yeah....

One can only wish that she'll be in a beatiful wedding gown standing beside me one day....

Love can be a painful thing @ times. But that's what makes it a challenge I guess.

I can't stop thinking about her each and every breakfast, lunch, dinner, and everything in between, hehehe....

She's like my favourite food - I'd like to see her and enjoy each others company every day, day after day after day, for the rest of my life.

Anyhow, I just wanted to speak the words of my heart and share with you my feelings.
Thanks for those who've took the time to read it.

I'll try to put up a few pics of her for ya fellas to see.

Have a good one fellas,
Chi Tai Thi

Warthog
08-05-2000, 09:32 PM
Congratulations Plucky!!! I am very happy because you are happy....er...yeah http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/wink.gif.

Do you have any pics of when you were together?
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Warthog

Gomer
08-05-2000, 10:26 PM
Atta Boy Plucky, she sounds like a great girl for you. Best of luck to you Plucky.

socalgal
08-06-2000, 05:33 PM
Good luck, Chi! May your dreams come true ...

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voogru
08-07-2000, 10:02 AM
you know what they say:
theres a girl for everyone!

daveleau
08-07-2000, 11:07 AM
Way to go PD. I hope you two get along great for a long time. You gotta tell me your secret for meeting her. http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/wink.gif
Dave

Gutter Ball
08-07-2000, 11:57 AM
And so continues the cycle of love! http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/smile.gif Plucky's found love...my friend just lost his :/ Good luck to you PD! http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/smile.gif

KAknight
08-07-2000, 03:25 PM
If you want to really make this work, go see her. 5 years is a lifetime. 10 is even worse. Go to her, or you will regret it.

plucky duck
08-07-2000, 03:45 PM
Yeah 5 years is an awefully long time. Stop reminding me http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/wink.gif

Too bad situation does not permit me taking this relationship any further right now. Still, I'm quite happy that I've met such a wonderful young lady.

I'm thinking about moving down to the states after I graduate. I really have to dig into how the US immigration system works.

Besides, IMO we're too young to get into any sort of relationship. She's walking down such a straight road right now I don't want to be the person to steer her of course and into a dark alley, you know what I mean?

I really want what's best for her, no matter if things work out between us or not. I love her and really want what's best for her.
Of course I've only known her for a few days so I don't know what she thinks is best for herself. That's just my thinking.

I think getting an education is what's best for both of us @ this point in time.

I believe if there is indeed that special connection between us time is of no significance.

I'll have to wait till I get either a new HD or a digital camera before I can put up a few pics of her. Bro's computer, where the scanner is located, ran out of hard drive space http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/frown.gif

Chi

SysOpt
08-07-2000, 08:00 PM
I don't want to rain on your parade and I think it's super that you fell for her. But if I may interject something:

Love at first sight is a nice feeling. Unfortunately the reality of a relationship is often different. Getting to know someone is the only way to know if you will even get along with them, and vise versa. Sure, you might be physically attracted to her, think she has a great personality, and you might know a bit about her past, etc., but you may find out that the differences between the two of you are too great or that she does not feel the same way about you.

True love, the kind that lasts, comes first from friendship and then mutual attraction and desire, IMO.

[This message has been edited by SysOpt (edited 08-07-2000).]

plucky duck
08-07-2000, 09:38 PM
SysOpt - I know what you mean, understand it perfectly and thankyou for your kind reminder http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/wink.gif

I know that it takes time to get to know a person and I'm not the kind that jumps into things. At 21 and 17 there's really no reason to rush into things. We keep in contact thru snail mail, emails, and ICQ thus giving us both a chance to know each other better.

True love does in most cases begins from friendship and then develops into something deeper.

How she feels about me I truly don't know.
All I know is that if she doesn't hate my guts when we first met, then it couldn't be that bad of a start and I probably still have a millionth-to-one of a chance, right? hehehe...

OK I think some of you guys are already throwing up reading all this stuff so I think I'll stop and give you guys mercy http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/wink.gif

Wanna see some pics?

If I can remember how to put it up then you guys can take a look @ 'em, fair enough?

OK, let me see... www.angelfire.com/ak4/pluckyduck/pics/ (http://www.angelfire.com/ak4/pluckyduck/pics/)


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Plucky (Chi)
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[This message has been edited by plucky duck (edited 08-08-2000).]

Warthog
08-07-2000, 09:50 PM
Me no see pics! http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/frown.gif

Warthog

Mntsnow
08-07-2000, 10:00 PM
She is a cutie http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/wink.gif Just play it straight and wish for the best http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/smile.gif

ps. Warthog...What I usually do for Angelfire pic's is just go to the "directory"(do this by just deleting the URL until you go back one "/") instead of the actual pic as Angelfire doesn't usually work across different "domains" (when the call is made from SYSOPT you will get the little angelfire icon instead of the pic) so click here and then click on the actual photo's name http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/smile.gif
http://www.angelfire.com/ak4/pluckyduck/pics/


[This message has been edited by Mntsnow (edited 08-07-2000).]

SysOpt
08-07-2000, 10:03 PM
Didn't mean to be harsh http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/wink.gif.. I truly hope it works out for ya.

Warthog
08-07-2000, 10:26 PM
Thanks, Mtnsnow. http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/smile.gif

Nice lookin' girl, pluckman. http://sysopt.earthweb.com/forum/smile.gif

Warthog

shocksyde
08-08-2000, 12:48 AM
i'm going out with an asain too...arent they tasty? haha. actually my gf is half asian half american, we've been together almost 7 months. 7 months?! AHHHHHHHHHH!!!

shock

Szech
08-08-2000, 03:54 PM
Best of luck, Plucky. Love is a double edged sword, it can make you feel as though the world is yours to command, or it can make you feel as though you have all but hallowed out into the shell of what once was a person. I've felt both, and I like the first a lot better.