How can I go about doing this?

[excelscior]

I live in California. I want to report my girlfriends ex to the Immigration dept. He sells drugs and abandoned his 15 year old kid wen the kid was four years old! I wouldn't get involved usually with someones elses family problems and history. But this Jack-azzez way of getting entertainment is to call his son and tell him how well he's doing with his new family. He tells how he has no money and that he could use some extra money. If it would be possible for him to get money from his mom to send it his way!! What a load of dung this loser is! Besides never paying child support. He thinks his kid owes him for bringing him into the world!!! I wanna show him how much he owes US THE TAX PAYERS!!!! Does anyone know where I can start getting this worthless pile of waste flushed??? I have alotta info like his fake name, fake SSI#, Real name, Real SSI#, former employer and names of supervisors, fake and real date of births, plus his current home address and phone#. I'm gonna sleep real cozy & warm in bed once this slime is off California streets! I'd appreciate any help. Thanks. Laterz. BTW.....I'm doing it for his kid. I hate seeing young kids emotionally abused by negligent biological waste dads. The mom gives the ok since her son is hurting too much as it is now. Some of you might feel I'm outa place here. But I'm a father who loves his daughter from the very first moment of conception! I hate deadbeat dads! And believe me, I know there are plenty out there! :mad:

[Vampiel]

Im sure you can find some information here...
http://uscis.gov/graphics/faqs.htm

[excelscior]

Thanks for the link Vampiel! "Now we go to school":D Laterz. :t

[Ammok]

if your doing it for the kid then think of him first, thats his father your talking about, good or bad, and trying to send him down may just not be a good thing to talk about when the child is a man.

Don't repay evil with evil.

[Bigjakkstaffa]

Also, be careful about treading on the toes of drug dealers.

--Jakk:t

[Vampiel]

As long as there is someone that you know will take care of him then I would deport him.

Ive had problems with my fiance's ex and wish I could deport him

[excelscior]

It was not I that wanted to repay evil with evil. As you put it Ammok. It was the mom who came to me and asked if I would do it for her. I asked why now? After 11 years of dealing with him, why all of a suddend she wants to deport him? She just said that her 15 y.o. son has been suffering the most since last year. This guy sends his kid mail to tell him how happy he is with his new family. When he never calls or sends him a birthday card or holiday wish in any way. He never calls to say "I love you or I miss you". But he calls to see if the son can get money from his mom for him. Lets say for one second that the guy had the lousiest relationship with his mom. It's neither of their faults, it just worked out that way. So the mom keep the kid and he moves on. You would think that a good father would ask and inquire of his own sons health, education, financial needs or anything that a child needs as they grow. But this guy just calls for his own selfish motives. He plays mind games with his kid telling his that "one day he'll come by to say hi". What kinda **** is that? he's lived within 10 miles for years and moved outa state on many occasions. According to the mom he needs to go to jail for a couple months soon for a DUI conviction. He sells cocaine and other drugs to make money. He rarely keeps a legit job for long. I just don't like hearing the son ask his mom "why does dad to this to me and us"? The son feels betrayed and used. His mom is a full time worker in a management type position. She has has to do what she needed to do to keep her home stable. I applaud any single parent who makes a sincere effort at keeping stabilty in thier home. My ex and I are seperated. But I have alota respect for her because she does a great job for our 7 y.o. I do my duty and help out, visit, call, spend almost every weekend from Fri-Sun and pay all the child support she needs and more. I regret our relationship couldn't be as succesful. But as parents we far exceed even our own expectations at times. I know it's because when we had our lil girl. We knew that we would do whatever it took to raise her on our own and not depend on anyone else or goverment aid. I wish that alota more couples would at least be the better parents with their children if and when they break-up. So when I see scum like this guy put his kid thru an emotional roller coaster without regret. That pisses me off and I find it pleasurable to make his life as miserable as possible. I finally convinced the mom to report him as a deadbeat dad all these years to the child support bureau. It's these scum of the land that deserve to be there in the first place! :mad:

[Ammok]

I am not disputing the kind of man he is, nor how bad people can be. All I can say is that things do not always work out how they are planned and more often than not backfire in the most horrible way. Especially with blood being thicker than water, you'd be surprised.

All I'm saying is that you want to cause this man as much distress and hurt as he has caused you, and that is your choice, not the lads.

From his point of view he is watching those he loves tear each other apart.

[excelscior]

If you have the abilty to have a kid(s). Then you have the obligation to see that your kid(s) have the best means of support and love till they grow up as adults! Parents should be held accountable when they abandon thier moral and financial obligation! I can keep going on and on and on etc.....:r

[Ammok]

not disputing that, we all do things we ought not to, and parenthood does not sit well on many shoulders, thats why we are the way we are now perhaps, as parents.

[excelscior]

I could care less if parenthood sits well with anyone that becomes pregnant or impregnates. If you can fornicate, then you can meet your moral & financial obligation. It's that mentality that causes the degradation of this society. I cannot and will never accept a worthless parent(s) excuse to abandon their kid(s) "because parenthood does not sit well with them". :mad:

[Vampiel]

Whatever you decide excelscior, I hope it turns out for the better, I dont think we need to argue with you b/c it seems like you have enough problems, but well I am with you on what youve decided (through personal experience)... good luck.

[excelscior]

Thanks Vampiel...I'm not going through alota stuff anymore. In fact I got rid of my ex last year. She used to take advantage of coming over my home at her leisure without permission. She's come wash her clothes, watch t.v., put her food in my freezer for later, ironed her clothes etc.. She lived like a nomad, so thats why I never really said anything. ( not wanting my lil girl to live like that either ) Early last year my older brother died of a stroke and my lil girls mom took over taking care of my mom at her home. This is when I told her that she was no longer welcomed at my home without prior permission. I thought she was going to keep me from seeing my little girl. But she realized what she was doing was very wrong. We are in process of divorcing. But we are doing it in a very civil manner. Our love for our daughter keeps us from flipping each other off and walking away completely. I just don't like seeing children abused mentally or physically by deadbeat retards! They are OUR FUTURE!! We should safeguard them all we can! Thanks again Vampiel for your thoughts and assistance. Laterz. :t

[Ammok]

And I don't want to argue with you either, i run a workshop for "intermediate long term unemployed" youths aged 18 to 24 years, and bar a couple, all of them come from broken homes and all of them have incredible emotional baggage.

Be it mothers fathers or step-parents they all have been through the mill and all have suffered.

All I am saying is look into the future if you can, and see the long term result, and if it works for you, then all well and good.


Good luck whatever path you choose.

:t