Big Scare

[fizur2002]

I just had the scariest experience of my life, i just found out my old GF was pregnant last night. So i worried all night about what i should do and everything. Then this afternoon rolls around and she calls me again and describes to me what sounds like a mis-carriage, which puts a lot of relief in me. Has anyone else had a close call like that?

[Baddog]

Fancy is going to lite in on you!:eek:

[mireland]

Originally posted by fizur2002
I just had the scariest experience of my life, i just found out my old GF was pregnant last night. So i worried all night about what i should do and everything. Then this afternoon rolls around and she calls me again and describes to me what sounds like a mis-carriage, which puts a lot of relief in me. Has anyone else had a close call like that?

what do you mean "close call" you're HAPPY it might have been a mis-carriage?? that doesn't sound very nice...and no I've never had a "close" call like that..:mad:

[gibsinep]

what the hell is wrong with you?

Man people like you should be thrown in jail or somthing.

That is just so messed up. ( your lucky I can't swear here)

I think If I was standing beside you I would have to beat the garbage out of you.


Wishing the death of a baby, hoping for the loss of life.
The world would be better without people like you. :mad:

I hope the mods just ban you, cause I don't ever want to read another comment from your ignorant f*k face. :mad:

[Dracas]

gibsinep always makes use of such finess when he's angry :)


But in a way, he's right. You shouldn't be happy about this, if she was pregnant and it was your kid, you think it wouldn't have been your responsibility or something? It may have been a 'near-miss' but its nothing to be happy about.

At that point, the critter wouldn't have been developed enough to have nuerological connection, no sentience, not even known it was floating in the womb, or that it even existed - but it was still the beginning of life. Being happy about a miscarriage isn't a good thing and its definately not a way to make friends here on a (primarily) family forum.

If you really were responsible, then don't think you've wiped your hands of this, for starters why on earth were you having unprotected sex with someone you weren't positive you were going to be with for awhile, or are you just 'one of those'?

No values in america anymore, not when it comes to responsibility, and not when it comes to love and life. Being happy because another human being, sentient or not, will not get the chance to live, makes you about as bad as the Osama bin ladies that attacked America on 9/11, or the idiots shooting at our troops in Iraq. It makes you as bad as our government, lying to cover their tracks while they make pretentious wars in other nations, its as bad as not being able to walk out in the street at night because you KNOW someone might be lurking out there with a gun, or someone might be sneaking around to find someone to rape.

Its not to hard to be a nice guy and a contributing member of society, so rather than being happy your Ex just had a miscarriage, why don't you call her up and see if SHE's okay, maybe feel a little sorry for the life that will not live, the breath that will not be breathed. The future is tomorrow, and since we're all so d*mn spoiled at this point, the future is all we have, so don't be happy when it doesn't get a chance to take place, alrighty?

Good Boy.

[Bigjakkstaffa]

Anyone who is relieved by the death of a baby deserves a bloody good kicking as far as im concerned :mad:

--Jakk:t

[fizur2002]

Hey! I am not trying to sound crule, i am only 19 she is 18, both of us can barely support ourselves let alone a child. This child was an accident and we both did not want it, so in a way it was a lesson learned not to trust a woman for protection. I am not happy she is having a misscarriage, i am just relieved that i dont have to worry about raising a child that i dont want yet. So dont make me sound like a uncaring and cruel guy here alright. But if she does turn out to have the child, then i will be there in the hospital with her when she has it.

[j.m@talk]

Originally posted by fizur2002
Hey! I am not trying to sound crule, i am only 19 she is 18, both of us can barely support ourselves let alone a child. This child was an accident and we both did not want it, so in a way it was a lesson learned not to trust a woman for protection. I am not happy she is having a misscarriage, i am just relieved that i dont have to worry about raising a child that i dont want yet. So dont make me sound like a uncaring and cruel guy here alright. But if she does turn out to have the child, then i will be there in the hospital with her when she has it.

Perhaps it was the way you put it :rolleyes:

Ohh by the way........ Go & get some contraceptive advice will ya you really are old enough to know better :(

[mireland]

Originally posted by fizur2002
This child was an accident and we both did not want it, so in a way it was a lesson learned not to trust a woman for protection. I am .

since when is it ONLY a womens responsibility for protection??http://www.fancysplace.com/smileys/censored.gif

[Bigjakkstaffa]

Yeah man, if your not ready to facer the consequences keep it zipped up, simple enough

--Jakk:t

[gibsinep]

I don't think you can count a lose of life as a lesson. :mad:



Since you can even support yourself then zip it up or chop it off. :rolleyes:

[j.m@talk]

Originally posted by mireland


since when is it ONLY a womens responsibility for protection??http://www.fancysplace.com/smileys/censored.gif

It is if you don't live in their neighbourhood ;)

(Wham Bam) ......................I'm Jesting :rolleyes:

[Billforce]

Even though the death of a human is tragic I am sure with your attitude, the child would be better off NOT being born and going thru life under poor circumstances.

[Dracas]

Originally posted by fizur2002
Hey! I am not trying to sound crule, i am only 19 she is 18, both of us can barely support ourselves let alone a child. This child was an accident and we both did not want it, so in a way it was a lesson learned not to trust a woman for protection. I am not happy she is having a misscarriage, i am just relieved that i dont have to worry about raising a child that i dont want yet. So dont make me sound like a uncaring and cruel guy here alright. But if she does turn out to have the child, then i will be there in the hospital with her when she has it.

LOL, screw what I posted here a second ago, I deleted it and have replaced it with this comment.

"It takes two to tango", if you didn't trust this woman, and she apparently lied to you, what the H*ll were you doing having sex with her? FOr that matter, since when is it a womans responsibility to wrap your Weiner for you? Do you ask people to hold it for you when you p*ss too?

And what do you mean "Accident", if you're out there making accidents, then please get out of the genepool. Theres enough of that with the people already living, rather then creating kids and giving them a complex by calling them 'accidents'. Apparently you're just as much an "Accident" as this kid might be, only because you seem to be a bit short on the end of the wit-stick.

I'm only 19, my girls only 23. We can barely support ourselves (as a matter of fact, we can't) and we don't take a lot of chances, but we still REFUSE to give up a kid if we should have one, for any reason - whether by chance or planning. And we definately wouldn't feel happy *OR* relieved if she had ANY sort of a miscarriage.

Grow up, be a man, twit.

[Bigjakkstaffa]

Im 17, i can empathise with the idea of having the **** scared out of you with the prospect of a kid at such a young age, but i couldnt even bring myself to think of terminating it, never mind be glad about it. Even if the girl herself wanted rid i would fight her liek hell, even if it meant taking sole responsibility for it myself.

I admit people should have the right to choose i just dont get how they can make that choice and be happy about it

--Jakk:t

[Billforce]

Just bear in mind young man, the BEST contraceptive is an aspirin tablet held TIGHTLY between the knees by your girlfriend:D

[chubtub]

Oh God do I feel old saying this:(

Man just wait til you can handle the mess ups and take responsability for them. When I got married we did not want to have kids. Opps, now the only thing I regret is losing gaming time to the little gnome playing Finding Nemo on my comp.

Difference I knew that I could handle it if it happened.

If you do not want your comp to crash do not boot it up.;)

[fizur2002]

Yall are a bunch of f###in vultures here tryin to rip me apart here, i feel bad enough that i got a young girl pregnant from a bad condom, but i feel even worse that the child died before it even drew breath.

I posted this in hopes that someone may have had this experience before, and that they might be able to help me with my feelings, but if all yall are going to do is **** on me the yall can go and F#### yourselves.

[mireland]

I hope we've ALL learned a valueable(sic) lesson from this thread..:mad:

[fizur2002]

I guess the important lesson is that if you dont want to look at her for the next 50 years, then dont screw her.

[Bigjakkstaffa]

For that reason, im closing it. NOW. This is a little bit controversial to say the least and its causing quite a bit of ill feeling.

--Jakk:t